WHERE AM I : DISCOVER YOURSELF

Exploring Your Inner Desires: Where Are You Stuck?

“Why do I want , what I want?” A question often echoed in the corridors of our minds. But the answer isn’t universal; it’s deeply personal and intricately tied to where we find ourselves in life’s grand tapestry.

1. The Realm of the Body: Physicality and Primal Desires

Body: The Temple of Sensations

When our self-identity finds its roots in the physical realm, our desires tend to lean toward the primal. In this realm, we yearn for sustenance to nourish our bodies and physical pleasures that tantalize our senses, such as the allure of delicious food and the intimacy of human connection. These desires often appear basic almost animalistic(down of a ladder because it is nothing only a bad dopamine) , driven by our biological instincts. The body operates like a pendulum, swinging between the pursuit of sustenance and the pursuit of sexual gratification.

Balancing Act: Body and Its Limitations

Yet, the body has its limits, marked by a simple polarity between these two desires. It’s a dance between the satisfaction of hunger and the fulfillment of our sensual desires. Sometimes, this realm can feel like a ladder’s lowest rung, dominated by the allure of dopamine-driven pleasures.

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2. The Domain of the Mind: Intellectual Exploration and Creativity

Mind: The Canvas of Imagination

For those whose self-identity aligns with intellectual prowess, desires manifest differently. The mind unfurls a rich tapestry of possibilities, offering a plethora of dimensions to explore. Within the intellectual domain, we discover the allure of music, dance, art, poetry, coding, and an endless array of intellectual pursuits. This realm embraces philosophy, religion, mathematics, science, and numerous other avenues of intellectual curiosity.

Infinite Horizons: Exploring Intellectual Passions

The mind, unlike the body’s polarity, is multifaceted and offers boundless opportunities for exploration. It is here that the pursuit of knowledge, innovation, and creativity takes center stage. For those who identify strongly with their intellectual capacities, the mind is an ever-expanding universe of possibilities.

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3. The Realm of the Heart: Emotions, Aesthetics, and Love

Heart: The Sanctuary of Emotions

For individuals who find their identity in the heart, desires soar to a higher plane. Here, we become finely attuned to aesthetics, sensitivity, and the profound power of love. The heart embodies receptivity, in stark contrast to the mind’s aggressiveness. It encapsulates feminine qualities, emphasizing love and emotional connection over rigid logic. When the heart guides our desires, we experience a deeper sense of connection and compassion for the world around us.

Harmony of the Heart: Balancing Emotions and Love

In this realm, the heart reigns supreme, weaving emotional tapestries that enrich our lives. The pursuit of beauty, relationships, and heartfelt experiences takes precedence over analytical thinking. It’s a place where empathy, compassion, and the appreciation of life’s aesthetic nuances flourish.

• The mind is aggressive the heart is receptive.
• The mind is male the heart is female.
• The mind is logic the heart is love.

So, where do you find yourself? Are you entranced by the primal allure of the body, exploring the boundless realms of the mind, or basking in the warm embrace of the heart’s emotions?

There is one more stage beyond all this three where you are not you ….!

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4. Beyond: Turiya – The Transcendental State

Turiya: The State of Dissolved Desires

Beyond the realms of body, mind, and heart, there exists a mystical state known as “Turiya” in the East, where all desires dissolve into the void. In this state, one resides entirely in the present moment, free from the shackles of past and future. It’s a divine state of being where the lotus of consciousness blossoms, and the self merges with the universe. Some example are : Buddha , Mahavira Guru Nanak , Guru Amar Das , Guru Arjan , Guru Tegh Bahadur ,Guru Gobind Singh , Guru Ram Das , Guru Angad , Guru Hargobind , Guru Har Rai , Guru Har Krishan , Mehta Kalu , Baba Gurditta , Baba Hari Dass , Swami Sivananda Saraswati , Adi Shankara , Maharishi Mahesh Yogi , Ramakrishna Paramahamsa , A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada , Guru Amar Das , Guru Har Rai , Ravidas , Chaitanya Mahaprabhu , Tulsidas Swami Vivekananda , Sri Sri Ravi Shankar , Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev , Premanand Maharaj and many more are there .

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The question of “What do I want?” often mirrors our uncertainty about where we stand within ourselves. To unearth this truth, introspection becomes essential:

• If your desires revolve around physical needs like sustenance and intimacy, you may find yourself rooted in the BODY.
• If your pursuits align with intellectual endeavors, your identity may be closely intertwined with the MIND.
• If your desires are guided by emotions, aesthetics, and the power of love, your HEART may be your dominant force.

Yet, if none of these categories entirely encapsulates your state of being, it could signify that you’re inching closer to the transcendent realm, where such questions cease to matter. To embrace the fourth realm, you must traverse through each stage, forging a deeper connection with yourself.

Rather than seeking external answers, I encourage you to embark on an introspective journey. Dive deep within yourself to explore where you are truly stuck. This inner voyage can unveil profound insights into your desires and the essence of your being. Just as the Earth conceals its gems deep beneath the surface, so too can you discover the treasures hidden within yourself by delving beneath the surface of your desires.

Thank You….!