Do you wonder how on earth your husband ever got along before you married him?
Do you envy your unmarried friends their freedom from domestic worries?
Do you ever take his hand at the movies?
If he is in the house when someone telephones an invitation for both of you, do hold the wire and consult him?
Do you correct him constantly when he’s not getting the details of an anecdote right?
Are you habitually late when you meet him somewhere?
Do you criticize him seriously in front of the children or outsiders?
Do you turn to him too often for help in solving your own problems?
Have you asked him in the last two weeks what went on at the office today?
Can you detect it when he’s worried about something?
Do you ever suggest leaving an interesting party early because he is tired?
Have you ever studied up on an interest of his with which you were not familiar?
Have you a habit of saying when he gets comfortably settled in an armchair with a book: “If you’re not doing anything, dear, would you mind getting me…”?
Does he have a chance to hobnob alone with men friends he particularly values?
Do you ever reminisce together about your first meeting, your engagement, your honeymoon?
Are you as well-groomed on evenings at home with him as when you are with other people?
When you have a complicated family problem to discuss, do you just plunge in without stopping to consider whether he’s dog-tired or out of sorts, or just generally not in the mood?
Is your mind apt to drift off onto clothes or the children while he’s talking about something unimportant to you?
Do the two of you ever sit up an hour or so later than you planned because you got interested in talking and didn’t notice the time?
Are you a chronic back-seat driver?
Do you make any effort to see that he’s spending his spare time the way he most wants to?
Do you take personally every general remark your husband makes?
Do you put the burden of more serious child discipline on him most of the time?
If you help buy his clothes, was it his idea or yours?
Which would you honestly rather do-go on a long, dull business trip with him or take a cruise with some friends without him?
